Why teaching mental health skills early is transformative for kids (Ages 7–10)
- lenacondos
- Dec 17, 2025
- 3 min read

Evidence-based prevention + simple tools children actually get
If you’ve got a child aged 7–10, you’ve probably seen it: big feelings, wobbly mornings, tight tummies, school refusal, overwhelm, and moments where you’re not sure how to help.
Many families feel like anxiety in children is now a normal part of growing up.But here’s the truth:
Mental health skills taught early don’t just help children cope now — they protect them later.
And the research is remarkably consistent.
Why the early years matter
Parents searching for “how to help an anxious child,” “emotional regulation for kids,” or “early mental health education” are really asking the same question: “Is it still early enough for these tools to shape their long-term wellbeing?”
Yes — and here’s the research:
Up to 20% of children and adolescents experience a mental health condition. (World Health Organization, 2021)
Suicide was the third leading cause of death globally for 15–29-year-olds.
For children aged 10–14, an estimated 8,327 deaths occurred globally in 2019 due to suicide.
Half of all mental health conditions begin by age 14. (Kessler et al., 2007)
In Australia, 14% of children aged 4–12 meet criteria for a mental health disorder each year. (AIHW, 2023)
These aren’t statistics — they’re kids like ours, still learning how to feel safe in their own bodies and minds.
That’s why this age is known as the prevention window — the stage when emotional habits form and stick.
What are protective factors in children’s mental health?
Protective factors are the skills and supports that help children:
manage stress and anxiety
recover from setbacks
understand and name emotions
build confidence and self-identity
ask for help
stay connected socially
When taught early, these skills reduce the risk of mental health struggles in adolescence and adulthood. (Masten & Tellegen, 2012)
This isn’t intervention.This is prevention — and prevention is powerful.
What early mental health education looks like
It’s NOT:
lectures
fixing behaviour
telling kids to “calm down”
treating feelings like problems
It IS:
naming feelings without shame
understanding how the brain and body work
using simple regulation tools (breathing, grounding, movement, thinking skills)
forming identity stories that build confidence
feeling safe with trusted adults
Why Frizz & Ferguson work so well
Children learn best when they feel safe — and when learning feels like play, not therapy.
Frizz, the brave and honest friend, tells kids:“Me too. I get it. Let’s try this together.”
This is co-regulation through story, which is how children internalise coping skills that last.
What kids learn through Wellbeing Hacks (in kid-friendly language)
Mental Health Skill | What Kids Learn to Say | Long-Term Protective Effect |
Emotional naming | “I know what I’m feeling.” | Less overwhelm |
Breathing & grounding | “My body can calm down.” | Reduced anxiety patterns |
Thought awareness | “My thoughts aren’t always true.” | Protection against negative thinking |
Resilience & repair | “I can try again.” | Stronger stress recovery |
Self-kindness | “I don’t need to be perfect.” | Lower shame + self-criticism |
These aren’t quick fixes.They are brain-wiring patterns that support confidence, resilience, and emotional safety — in childhood and beyond.
How Wellbeing Hacks supports your child
Wellbeing Hacks gives families the simple, evidence-based strategies kids need to:
calm their bodies and minds
understand their emotions
challenge unhelpful thoughts
build resilience
feel confident in who they are
If you’d like to learn how Wellbeing Hacks can support your child’s mental health, click here:
With support
Lena
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